Putting the cart before the horse, Kinetic II wrote:I want 2 or 3 kids before I'm done, if it's possible for me to have any. She wants the same but in this day and age I'm playing it very cautious. I don't want to be just a child support check for her and never see my kids...I've seen that happen all around me and I don't want it to be my story.
Don't even worry about it at this point. If you know that the two of you have reasonably compatible desires, children-wise, set that aside for the moment and pursue your relationship with one another. In a few years, if you're doing well, committed, feeling certain about being together for the long term, then you can start thinking about actually having them. Imho, ymmv, etc.
In his continuing quest to change the subject away from kids and drugs, Kinetic II further wrote: And nobody has an opinion on curling? Come on! Surely someone out there knows what I'm talking about?
I dunno, it doesn't seem like an entire sport in itself. Perhaps as part of a triathlon sort of thing, along with acrylic nails and electrolysis?