by technopatra » Tue Dec 09, 2003 5:34 pm
hmm.. ok now I'm confused-
The Spanky-pulled thread that I went crying to him about had nothing to do with the cafe. It did have some really nasty Tawny-bashing, and some nasty replies to Tawny-bashing.
This was, as far as I know, the only thread that was pulled by an admin.
We had a couple of other threads that were accidentally auto-pruned because we missed turning off the auto-prune function when they were set- so if no one responded in something like 7 or 14 days, they disappeared.
The difference between that the pulled thread and most of WSPR's nasty threads is that the eplayans rallied and turned his around - they for the most part, became useful, even enjoyable conversations.
The difference in our response is due to that, and to the reaction from the community of Spanky pulling the first one, which was mixed at best. This was due to the fact (that someone else pointed out) that there was no policy to point to so it was perceived as reactionary. Which I guess it was.
Someone questioned, earlier in this thread (sorry I can't see who, oh does it bug me that in the preview window you can only see the messages that are on the same page as you, grrr), whether we should've gotten involved at all. Well that's a good question.
How long do we let the bashing go before it demands admin attention? That one had almost a full page of just mean trash, with no end, imo, in sight. WSPR's threads didn't get 2 posts before he got called out, and it took few posts after that for the thread to drift somewhere better. Even after that, I got a number of PMs and emails asking me to kill his account, because just seeing the topic title made them feed bad and they didn't want to be here anymore.
What do you guys think? If our judgement is being questioned when we act on our own, and our judgement is being questioned when we act on user requests, what undebatable metric can we use to decide when to get involved?
I don't mean to sound defensive - but what I'm hearing is a call for an alternative to subjective judgements about what's too evil to keep on the boards. The problem I'm having, is that eveil _is_ subjective. If we tackle defining what is evil, beyond the start that Trey gave us, in the rules they will never get finished.
When it comes down to it, we just have to make some basic rules, then we'll make our best calls and deal with the heat.
I don't want to kill this conversation - please continue, it may yield some better ideas. But for the immediate present, what we need is hard suggestions for Trey's draft so I can officialize it this week.