DallasPlaya wrote:Could someone put up the rideshare board NOW so people can make plans? A lot of us are coming from far away and need to be able to coordinte dates/times and get the time off work, etc., NOW.
HughMungus wrote:Could someone put up the rideshare board NOW so people can make plans? A lot of us are coming from far away and need to be able to coordinte dates/times and get the time off work, etc., NOW.
Traveller wrote:HughMungus wrote:Could someone put up the rideshare board NOW so people can make plans? A lot of us are coming from far away and need to be able to coordinte dates/times and get the time off work, etc., NOW.
Yeah, I'm responding to a one year old post, but this topic got raised a number of times in the year that followed, and this particular post is a great illustration of something I've been noticing lately that's been getting under my skin. This attitude that something needs to be done NOW, by somebody ELSE. What happened to DIY?
Hugh, you've already been pointed in the direction of the official Burning Man rideshare board. Let's say that you don't like it, because instead of looking like a traditional board (like ePlaya) that let's you see everything at once, it's more of a matching service. I don't see why that would be a problem for somebody, but let's say that it is. Fine.
Then the unhappy would-be user can go over to an unofficial Burning Man travellers' board which I set up, complete with two discussion lists and a homepage. Setting this up was easy and you could have done the same, easily. Instead, you griped at Technopatra about what she wasn't doing. "Can you put up the board NOW." Why so hostile, about that? And then 6 months later, you're back with the same request, albeit phrased a little more politely.
In 6 months, you couldn't set up your own free website? Total cost to the guy setting the unofficial rideboard up (me), $0.00. Time spent - minimal. I don't know if anybody is ever going to use these things, seeing as the LLC has an official rideshare system going, but at least I did something other than just complain.
Next time, you might consider doing the same. No offense.
HughMungus wrote:Excuse me. Could someone point out how I've been "hostile"? All I did was ask that the the rideshare board be put up earlier than usual?
Morticia: "What's the magic word?"
Wednesday: "Can you pass the biscuits NOW?"
Morticia: "That's better"
HughMungus wrote:People, this is the internet.
HughMungus wrote:Don't assume people's personalities, mannerisms, or attitudes over an internet connection.
HughMungus wrote:Somehow some of you are assuming that I'm being demanding or rude. Please note the very key word "COULD" as in, "Could this be done now?", a question, instead of a demand or complaint. The reason I used capitals in the word "NOW"
HughMungus wrote:is because it seems we'd all be better off with the rideshare board being put up much earlier than it has in the past. The irony is that I asked because I had rides to give and wanted to help others with rides as I have in the past, not because I needed, wanted, or expected anything from anyone else.
HughMungus wrote:I hesitate to be critical of your idea of having a whole different board to send people to because you might think that constructice criticism is also, somehow, "hostile",
HughMungus wrote:but (ahem), sending people to yet another website in order to coordinate activities is not a good idea when we already have the same resources and user base here.
HughMungus wrote:I know I could have setup my own website. But that would have split and confused the userbase here when,
HughMungus wrote:instead of "gaping at" someone I could have just waited patiently for the current system to be "fixed".
Traveller wrote:You shower Technopatra with hostility because she hasn't gotten a board going according to your own personal timetable, and then want to get preachy about patience? Good one.
Rockdad wrote:Hee Haw he he he LMAO!
:lol:
HughMungus wrote:I'm sorry that your mis-interpretation of my original post caused so much anxiety for you. Thanks for taking the time to explain myself to me so much more clearly than I previously understood and defend those who you think can't handle their own business.
HughMungus wrote: Thanks for taking the time to explain myself to me so much more clearly than I previously understood and defend those who you think can't handle their own business.
Burnboy wrote:HughMungus wrote: Thanks for taking the time to explain myself to me so much more clearly than I previously understood and defend those who you think can't handle their own business.
Community begins with the words "I've got your back". To stand up for somebody who has been wrongly attacked is to do nothing more than to show that those words mean something.
Technopatra can "handle her own business" without our help being offered, no doubt, but what a sad show of ingratitude on our part for her years of effort on our behalves if we ask her to.
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