Shambala wrote:My biggest WTF moment happend last night (Saturday night).
I went to a large regional mall not far from my house, that I had not been to in probably a year. There was an addition to it that nearly doubled its size and it was FULLY decked out for Christmas. The mall was packed, and most everyone was dressed in their fancy logo clothes and were in full Christmas shopping mode. WTF is going on with our society? Our we as a group that easily led by the nose to spend our hard earned money on useless, disposable shit, just because the mall hung up Christmas decorations?
This is going to be a very bumpy holiday season for me. I know the economy needs the sales, but I don't like seeing people being so sheepish when buying all that crap just because they feel they have to.
WTF!

Shambala wrote:My biggest WTF moment happend last night (Saturday night).
I went to a large regional mall not far from my house, that I had not been to in probably a year. There was an addition to it that nearly doubled its size and it was FULLY decked out for Christmas. The mall was packed, and most everyone was dressed in their fancy logo clothes and were in full Christmas shopping mode. WTF is going on with our society? Our we as a group that easily led by the nose to spend our hard earned money on useless, disposable shit, just because the mall hung up Christmas decorations?
This is going to be a very bumpy holiday season for me. I know the economy needs the sales, but I don't like seeing people being so sheepish when buying all that crap just because they feel they have to.
WTF!
Eric wrote:Shambala wrote:My biggest WTF moment happend last night (Saturday night).
I went to a large regional mall not far from my house, that I had not been to in probably a year. There was an addition to it that nearly doubled its size and it was FULLY decked out for Christmas. The mall was packed, and most everyone was dressed in their fancy logo clothes and were in full Christmas shopping mode. WTF is going on with our society? Our we as a group that easily led by the nose to spend our hard earned money on useless, disposable shit, just because the mall hung up Christmas decorations?
This is going to be a very bumpy holiday season for me. I know the economy needs the sales, but I don't like seeing people being so sheepish when buying all that crap just because they feel they have to.
WTF!
I decided years ago to boycott all mandatory gift giving. I don't give obligatory presents and I don't want them. No Christmas/ Hanukkah, no birthday, no housewarming anniversary wedding divorce.... if it's a day where society expects you to give a present, I won't play along and won't even tell most people my actual birthday so they don't feel obligated to get me something. I've been doing this for close to 15 years now, my friends & family understand (except my parents- they insist they like giving me birthday & Hanukkah gifts. I gave up)
I've worked too long in retail and seen too much "Aunt Agnes likes candles, um.... lets buy her that candle holder...." decision making on gifts. No thought, just a feeling of obligation.
What I will do, and love to do, is to give random presents because I find something that reminds me of someone or that I know a particular person will love, and I love receiving things for the same reason. Because they're truly given as a gift, not because they're supposed to be.
/rant

gaminwench wrote:but then they grew to understand the difference between gifting from the heart & gifting 'cuz ya gotta'..
Eric wrote:gaminwench wrote:but then they grew to understand the difference between gifting from the heart & gifting 'cuz ya gotta'..
Them's the words I was looking for!
Jkisha- I love spending time with friends & family on those days, just not the obligatory gift giving thing.

Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
drucake wrote:WTF? I just watched Kate Plus Eight. Its sick and stupid. Sorry, i just had to share.
drucake wrote:WTF? I just watched Kate Plus Eight. Its sick and stupid. Sorry, i just had to share.
Trishntek wrote:Driving from Ventura to Fullerton and back in one day, twice weekly provides an overwhelming number of WTF moments. It is 100 miles each direction and all city driving conditions. There is no mystery to me why people shoot each other down there.
"It's no secret there are an abundance of idiots on the road and he looks like one of them!" said I while being interviewed for jury duty for a DUI case.
maryanimal wrote:However there has been a major thread drift.
Eric wrote:maryanimal wrote:However there has been a major thread drift.
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You'll discover that much like the real playa, a lot of things go off-track here. Thread drift is common to almost every forum I've been on, and for the most part the ones here are interesting at least!
As for your handmade gifts- they will most likely be treasured. I know the ones I give are- I had one friend tell me he'd rather get a gift from me every five years than some of the stuff he gets from other people for every holiday. Something made specifically for someone can make their day.
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