safetythird wrote:Speaking as a parent (I have 2, my partner has 3) of kids ranging from 9 to 16 I would definately NOT take my kids to BM, especially since we're virgins ourselves. It's not because of the sex/drugs/whatever at BM. It's because we don't want them to see us indulging in those things while at BM. I guess you could call us closet freaks.
We have a place in Rosarito, MX that we go to frequently. We plan Family trips and we plan Adult trips. We pack the appropriate behavior for both.
If someone else wants to bring their children I say "Go for it". It's really up to the parents to decide what thier kids are ready for. IF it becomes a problem (ie the toning down of the event for the sake of the children) then I'd have to back the "No Kids" movement.
I think we have an overly protective society when it comes to kids anyways. Shit, all you have to do is say "it's for the children" and people will have to agree with you. Who's going to be FOR something that might harm children? I remember riding in the bed of my dad's pickup many times and survived it. If I were to allow my children to ride in the back of a truck I'm sure I'd be hearing from Child Protective Services or some organization like that. Yeah, and my parents used to smoke cigarettes around me all the time, in the car, the house, anywhere. Those bastards! Didn't they know second hand smoke will kill children on contact? Somehow I survived.
Don't get me wrong, I love kids. I own a couple and sometimes they're even useful. With all the crap on TV nowadays I don't think it would be all that easy to shock today's teens. Maybe the BM experience would be good for them, but that's a decision for their parents and their parents alone.
Safety Third
safetythird wrote:Speaking as a parent (I have 2, my partner has 3) of kids ranging from 9 to 16 I would definately NOT take my kids to BM, especially since we're virgins ourselves. It's not because of the sex/drugs/whatever at BM. It's because we don't want them to see us indulging in those things while at BM. I guess you could call us closet freaks.
We have a place in Rosarito, MX that we go to frequently. We plan Family trips and we plan Adult trips. We pack the appropriate behavior for both.
If someone else wants to bring their children I say "Go for it". It's really up to the parents to decide what thier kids are ready for. IF it becomes a problem (ie the toning down of the event for the sake of the children) then I'd have to back the "No Kids" movement.
I think we have an overly protective society when it comes to kids anyways. Shit, all you have to do is say "it's for the children" and people will have to agree with you. Who's going to be FOR something that might harm children? I remember riding in the bed of my dad's pickup many times and survived it. If I were to allow my children to ride in the back of a truck I'm sure I'd be hearing from Child Protective Services or some organization like that. Yeah, and my parents used to smoke cigarettes around me all the time, in the car, the house, anywhere. Those bastards! Didn't they know second hand smoke will kill children on contact? Somehow I survived.
Don't get me wrong, I love kids. I own a couple and sometimes they're even useful. With all the crap on TV nowadays I don't think it would be all that easy to shock today's teens. Maybe the BM experience would be good for them, but that's a decision for their parents and their parents alone.
Safety Third
I do believe the org had no choice to comply if it wanted to preserve the event.
And as I said on a regional, rather eliptically, radical self expression, radical self reliance and radical inclusion are clearly not compatable in their extremes. This is clearly being demonstrated in this case and I can think of many others as well. So, as we say in the design world 'good, fast, cheap... pick two'.
unjonharley wrote:I'm bring one of my kids this year. I got a ticket for him to attend. How many of the parents can say that? No ya-buts. If you turn up at the gate without a ticket for each person in the car. Then the whole car load is held up until every one has a ticket. That"s the rule, isn't it?? I did not see a age line for free attendance. If these little pups are getting in free. Then why can"t i get my 44 year old son in FREE??
randy redhed wrote:
two, why hasn't this topic been the subject of a major town hall meeting? especially if we are concerned with the feds busting up the party? i see no reason why bmorg should suddenly abandon a central founding principle ('radical self-expression') without alot of public discussion first.
technopatra wrote:...kids...(are)...a consistent and vital part of our community
1 - if you are a parent it is your responsibilty to parent your kids
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3 - tho we might wish otherwise, we are in Nevada so we do still have to obey the laws of Nevada. (Why this is such a hard pill for folks to swallow is beyond me.)
1 - if you are a parent it is your responsibilty to parent your kids
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3 - tho we might wish otherwise, we are in Nevada so we do still have to obey the laws of Nevada. (Why this is such a hard pill for folks to swallow is beyond me.)
Do you think kids are essential at Burning Man, or just inevitable? regards - Jafe
Does anyone really want to see little Johnny or Jill present at the Beaver Eating Contest? Apparently, the organizers of this beaver eating fest don't, for they've already scrupled to do this quite on their own. We think other camps that feature overt sexual activity should follow their example.
Little Johnny and Jill aren't the only ones they are trying to keep out.
Isotopia wrote:Little Johnny and Jill aren't the only ones they are trying to keep out.
Try hanging out there helping to keep the 'curious' at bay and you might get an idea of why they don't open the event up to everyone and their brother. It can be a real beacon for the hordes of prurient Yahoo/Frat boys.
Exclusivity can often cast a wide net and yours isn't the only complaint about who and how the decisions are made about who to let in or not. Some things aren't perfect but some things work better than no things.
Stormy wrote:Oh this wasn't meant as a complaint. Well not against the GCBEC. Just Larry's take on it. You know what they say about assumptions.
technopatra wrote:Stormy wrote:Oh this wasn't meant as a complaint. Well not against the GCBEC. Just Larry's take on it. You know what they say about assumptions.
He wasn't making any assumptions. He knows the people who put on the GCBEC.
Mithra wrote:Yikes....Here's my take...
Camps like TOA and Jiffy Lube already screen entrants to thier camp. It's not like anyone is saying you can't have that here.
Mithra
Was that about protecting kids?
What I do have a problem with is the firm, entrenched belief that what we do see going on here foretells (possibly) a continued exertion of political pressure on the event to tame it so that it's more palatable to those who'd set themselves up to be arbiters of what constitutes art (i.e the Jiffy Lube sign) and decency.
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