Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
Drawingablank wrote:I'm not sure what you might gain from meeting in person unless exchanging actual printed tickets.
As stated above your best protection is to use a major credit card. In the case of fraud or other problems the credit card companies will always side with the buyer - the burden of proof (of delivery, etc...) then falls to the seller.
That is based on roughly 3 decades of accepting credit cards as a merchant. Card companies have sided with my customers every time without fail until we provided proof of delivery. Even for the most ridiculous reasons like a customer forgetting they ordered something from us, seeing it on their bill, and contacting the card company. It's one of the reasons even the most mercenary businesses take customers complaints so seriously (chargebacks get a stiff penalty fee, and if they get too many it affects the percentage they pay to accept charges, or even loss of their merchant account).

jkisha wrote:Drawingablank wrote:I'm not sure what you might gain from meeting in person unless exchanging actual printed tickets.
As stated above your best protection is to use a major credit card. In the case of fraud or other problems the credit card companies will always side with the buyer - the burden of proof (of delivery, etc...) then falls to the seller.
That is based on roughly 3 decades of accepting credit cards as a merchant. Card companies have sided with my customers every time without fail until we provided proof of delivery. Even for the most ridiculous reasons like a customer forgetting they ordered something from us, seeing it on their bill, and contacting the card company. It's one of the reasons even the most mercenary businesses take customers complaints so seriously (chargebacks get a stiff penalty fee, and if they get too many it affects the percentage they pay to accept charges, or even loss of their merchant account).
WARNING: This is NOT the case if you use Paypal. Actually, quite the opposite is true.
jecca wrote:Drawingablank wrote:I'm not sure what you might gain from meeting in person unless exchanging actual printed tickets.
I guess what i thought there would be to gain from meeting the person is that i could watch him fill out the name change form.... ? that seems to make the most sense to me i guess....
Would a credit card company really side with you if you paid for something from a complete stranger online and didn't receive what you had paid for?
Drawingablank wrote:
Well as JS mentioned, use a credit card that is not linked to a paypal account. Personally I detest Paypal and have had several problems with them, but you can use a non paypal card to pay someone with paypal as far as I know.

jkisha wrote:Drawingablank wrote:
Well as JS mentioned, use a credit card that is not linked to a paypal account. Personally I detest Paypal and have had several problems with them, but you can use a non paypal card to pay someone with paypal as far as I know.
I have a love/hate relationship with them myself. They work fine if all goes well, but you just can't count on them when there is a problem. I have had two experiences using Paypal where merchandise was not delivered and both times Paypal sided with the merchant. Now, if I am forced to use them, I chose the option to pay via Credit Card.
I do, however, offer Paypal as a payment option on our company website. Some people really prefer them--go figure.
Drawingablank wrote:jkisha wrote:Drawingablank wrote:I'm not sure what you might gain from meeting in person unless exchanging actual printed tickets.
As stated above your best protection is to use a major credit card. In the case of fraud or other problems the credit card companies will always side with the buyer - the burden of proof (of delivery, etc...) then falls to the seller.
That is based on roughly 3 decades of accepting credit cards as a merchant. Card companies have sided with my customers every time without fail until we provided proof of delivery. Even for the most ridiculous reasons like a customer forgetting they ordered something from us, seeing it on their bill, and contacting the card company. It's one of the reasons even the most mercenary businesses take customers complaints so seriously (chargebacks get a stiff penalty fee, and if they get too many it affects the percentage they pay to accept charges, or even loss of their merchant account).
WARNING: This is NOT the case if you use Paypal. Actually, quite the opposite is true.
Well as JS mentioned, use a credit card that is not linked to a paypal account. Personally I detest Paypal and have had several problems with them, but you can use a non paypal card to pay someone with paypal as far as I know.
Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
junglesmacks wrote:Actually.. wait wait wait.. you're misunderstanding what I was trying to say.
I ALWAYS use a linked credit card when I'm using PayPal because of the following scenario:
If you use your bank account or debit card and draw funds directly out of your account.. and for some reason you need to make a non-delivery claim.. you win the claim.. PayPal attempts to collect from the seller.. and they don't have the funds anymore in their account.. you get a simple "Sorry, we couldn't collect. We'll keep trying though". Meaning so sorry, you lose.
IF you use a credit card, you can make a claim directly against PayPal.. and WIN.. because of the non-delivery. It's not your fault that PayPal couldn't collect. They didn't deliver what you paid for, so you win.
I've had this exact scenario play out more than a few times as I online shop for everything that I possibly can. Hell.. I even buy groceries online these days.
Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
Savannah wrote:Interesting, Jecca. (And sorry to hear it). This has still been a useful thread, as we've been able to listen to people talk about their experiences with paypal vs. credit cards.
Without listing names or email addresses of the potential scam artists, what new developments were there that tipped you off?
trilobyte wrote:Responding to the original post, no once someone transfers a ticket order they can't un-transfer it (no take-backsies!). And no, Burning Man does not broker person-to-person after-market sales.
I'd also recommend paying with PayPal. HOWEVER, make sure you do not send the money as a gift. Sure, there's a temptation to do that to avoid the fees (small percentage on the transaction), but sending money as a gift affords no purchase protection. That may mean that you have to send more money than the agreed-upon purchase price (to cover the paypal transaction fees), but that's a small price for the peace of mind you're seeking.
Nudging this over to tickets discussion, since that's a better fit.
trilobyte wrote:I'll check with the ticket team, but the whole point of transferring the order is that it's… being transferred.
Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
trilobyte wrote:The person who misled Jecca was going by old and outdated event (pre-2012 event), and has since been corrected.
Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
Savannah wrote:It sounds freaky & wrong, so you need to do it.
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