I Was an ESD Widow
...so I can relate. It's hard to have the person you love obsessed with something. You want to be there, too; you want to be getting some of that love and attention. During courtship did you spend as much time thinking about how to please and help and pamper her? Not that I was going anywhere with that question, just curious.
She needs to find something that will give her interests on playa, because, in case you don't already know, mvs take a lot of pampering during the event. Whether it's visiting every sex camp or joining a sewing circle, you (and this is in the plural) do not want her bored and lonely while you're there. So, you can have her look at the on web event calendar and figure out an itinerary (with the old burn the itinerary moment when the camp's up.) She could join the eplaya and join in the chatter and maybe find people she wants to meet. Or give her a bullhorn. (Put a ribbon on it, and tell her it's the Lexus of bullhorns.)
(Sorry about the commercialism there folks.)
And that's in addition to a weekend off and a date night a week where you focus on her.
Edited to add: Oh, yeah. You might want to hang on every word next time she's describing a project of her own...
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"So many people have so little clue and there's only a finite amount of patience in the world!" --International Incident.